Monday, February 19, 2007

Who'll You Choose?

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly: "When you are happy, who would you want to share your happiness with?" The person you'll think of is the one you love. Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly: "When you are sad, who do you want to share your pain with?" The person you'll think of is also the one you love.
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If you think of the same person when you are happy and sad, that's the most perfect. But if you don't think of the same person, it'll be better to choose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
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In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are many people whom you can share your happiness with, not necessarily just the person you love. If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. However, not many people are willing to share your pain.
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If you are willing to share your happiness with someone, that person has got to be someone close and understands you. But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you when he or she is happy, but looks for someone else when he or she is sad, this person is not very reliable; he or she doesn't treat you as someone whom he or she can spend the rest of his or her life with.
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When you are sad, who comes to your mind first?
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2 comments:

Ruth Tam said...

http://ruthtam.blogspot.com/2007/03/shelter-of-my-heart.html

I don't share with my husband sorrow or joy. Usually, we just have a good time when we are together. But I choose to believe he's my loved one.

Anonymous said...

i know i can share my pain with the one who has given his love for me...